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Learn to Cook. It helps hope.
When you are down, when all is not well in life and you are struggling like never before, then you still have an option. You always have an option. Of doing more. Of working more. Of struggling more. So that you are down but you wont’ pass; so that you would rise again after you hit the bottom. That belief is optimism. That hope for future and positivity is what drives change in life.
For me optimism these days reflects in my engagements with the kitchen. All is not well in life. But that is not a matter of concern if I still find the passion to keep moving. Because moving in the right direction even if slowly is the right thing to do.
So what do you do when you all is not well? You find the passion to keep going.
I found this passion with cooking, and I brought a smile on the face of friends and family apart from brining some light to my own face.
So it happened that one night in late 2013, I didn’t had anything to eat. I was a bit down with fever and didn’t wanted to go out to eat. It was a major holiday and not many were willing to home-deliver food. I was alone, friends were away. I wanted to eat something bad but had no access to any cooked or canned food.
I decided to take initiative. I realized that just worrying was not going to be of any help. I must become a producer of cooked food! Lo, there was my Eureka moment.
I went straight to the kitchen. It was still in okay condition after aunty had left months ago. I checked out supplies, boxes. There was some rice, dal, spices and many other things.
I washed rice and dal. And put them together in pressure cooker. I had no vegetables but that didn’t matter. I was creating and this was a special moment in my life: I would eat it come what may and would find it very tasty too.
In some twenty minutes and four whistles, I switched off the gas stove. I let the pressure cooker cool for some five minutes and after it. And my food was ready!
Pure labour of love. I had learnt to ‘look up’. I had found my heaven, with cooking. I was smiling as I had made a modest meal. It was not a wonderful thing but it was very tasty and every grain was full of hope and optimism.
You see optimism can be found all around especially in small things, that we choose to ignore or delegate to others. Try cooking a meal today and you will understand what I have understood. Look up to your kitchen and fill your home with hope for future.